Uniquely Qualified
For over three decades, Chaplain Lew Cox has dedicated his services to ministry and victim advocacy, supporting families affected by violent loss. His extensive experience and training equip him to guide individuals, groups, and church communities through the challenges of traumatic grief.
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Certified Trauma Service Specialist
- Certified Victim Advocate/Peer Counselor
- Serves as a Traumatic Grief Expert Witness
- Pastoral Trauma Counselor
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Qualification in Critical Incident Stress Management
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Assignment at Ground Zero, World Trade Center (2001)
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Appointed to assist co-victims of the Green River killer
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Survivor of the murder of his 22-year-old daughter in 1987
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Co-authored the book “Coping with Traumatic Death: Homicide.”
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Conference keynote speaker and workshop facilitator about traumatic grief
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Presents the “Prevention of Suicide in Law Enforcement” courses to police agencies
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Served as a Missionary in the remote islands of the Philippines
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Traumatic Grief Ministry to Homeless Military Camp – Tacoma, WA
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Prison Ministry Walla Walla State Penitentiary
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Chaplain-National Police Week, Washington, D.C.
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Member - FBI Community Academy -Seattle
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Homicide support groups facilitate
Ordination - Bethel Christian Center of Federal Way Church
Mission
The initiative is designed to educate clergy and counselors to support individuals within the Body of Christ who are experiencing extended grief after trauma, provide chaplaincy services to law enforcement and the community, and establish a Suicide Prevention program for law enforcement officers.
Our Purpose and Key Points of Traumatic Grief Process…
Our ministry provides a series of lectures to aid church leaders in understanding the impacts of traumatic grief on the body of Christ. We have recognized that violence is becoming increasingly prevalent in our communities, and the church is not immune to it. Equipping the ministry with the necessary knowledge and skills to support those who are experiencing traumatic grief will help individuals achieve a deeper level of healing and strengthen them spiritually.
Key Points
- Definition: Traumatic grief arises from events like the violent death of a loved one or the loss of a child. It can also occur when your support system is unexpectedly taken away. The shock and unexpected nature of the loss can be traumatizing, leading to intrusive thoughts and intense emotions.
- Different from Expected Grief: Traumatic grief differs from the grief associated with expected losses. While all forms of grief are challenging, traumatic grief tends to be more overwhelming. It may even lead to a condition called prolonged grief disorder, characterized by persistent longing for the lost person and interference with daily life.
- Intense Feelings: The feelings associated with traumatic grief are particularly intense. The suddenness of the loss triggers distorted survival mechanisms, alongside the mourning process. Individuals experiencing traumatic grief may also be at risk of developing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
- Symptoms: Traumatic grief can include nightmares, intrusive thoughts, emotional unpredictability, and a deep sense of shock and disbelief.
Addressing traumatic grief requires a holistic approach, combining spiritual support, practical tools, and strategic action.
Remember that everyone experiences grief differently, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve.
Please contact us to plan training courses and view the MENU for further information.
Our Purpose
Our ministry provides a series of lectures to aid church leaders in understanding the impacts of traumatic grief on the body of Christ. Violence is becoming increasingly prevalent in our communities, and the church is not immune to it. Equipping the church with the necessary knowledge and skills to support those who are experiencing traumatic grief will help individuals achieve a deeper level of healing and strengthen them spiritually. Our goal is to effectively train religious leaders to offer valuable support to those grieving after a funeral and to equip them to navigate the complexities of prolonged grief.
Key Points in Addressing the Traumatic Grief Process
- Traumatic Grief
Arises from events like the violent death of a loved one or the loss of a child. It can also occur when your support system is unexpectedly taken away. The shock and unexpected nature of the loss can be traumatizing, leading to intrusive thoughts and intense emotions.
- Different from Expected Grief
Traumatic grief differs from grief associated with expected losses. While all forms of grief are challenging, traumatic grief tends to be more overwhelming. It may even lead to a condition called prolonged grief disorder, characterized by persistent longing for the lost person and interference with daily life.
- Intense Feelings
The feelings associated with traumatic grief are particularly intense. The sudden loss triggers distorted survival mechanisms, alongside the mourning process. Individuals experiencing traumatic grief may also be at risk of developing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
- Symptoms
Traumatic grief can include nightmares, intrusive thoughts, emotional unpredictability, and a deep sense of shock and disbelief.
Everyone experiences grief differently, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve.
Addressing traumatic grief requires a holistic approach, combining spiritual support, practical tools, and strategic action.
Please get in touch with us to plan training courses. Please view the MENU for further information.
Our Purpose
Our ministry provides a series of lectures to aid church leaders in understanding the impacts of traumatic grief on the body of Christ. Violence is becoming increasingly prevalent in our communities, and the church is not immune to it. Equipping the church with the necessary knowledge and skills to support those who are experiencing traumatic grief will help individuals achieve a deeper level of healing and strengthen them spiritually. Our goal is to effectively train religious leaders to offer valuable support to those grieving after a funeral and to equip them to navigate the complexities of prolonged grief.
Key Points in Addressing the Traumatic Grief Process
- Traumatic Grief
Arises from events like the violent death of a loved one or the loss of a child. It can also occur when your support system is unexpectedly taken away. The shock and unexpected nature of the loss can be traumatizing, leading to intrusive thoughts and intense emotions.
- Different from Expected Grief
Traumatic grief differs from grief associated with expected losses. While all forms of grief are challenging, traumatic grief tends to be more overwhelming. It may even lead to a condition called prolonged grief disorder, characterized by persistent longing for the lost person and interference with daily life.
- Intense Feelings
The feelings associated with traumatic grief are particularly intense. The sudden loss triggers distorted survival mechanisms, alongside the mourning process. Individuals experiencing traumatic grief may also be at risk of developing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
- Symptoms
Traumatic grief can include nightmares, intrusive thoughts, emotional unpredictability, and a deep sense of shock and disbelief.
Everyone experiences grief differently, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve.
Addressing traumatic grief requires a holistic approach, combining spiritual support, practical tools, and strategic action.
Please get in touch with us to plan training courses. Please view the MENU for further information.
